This is the tale of a book, the author’s reputation, and reader expectations — and how all three left some of the author’s most enthusiastic fans disappointed.
Meet the Frugalwoods: Achieving Financial Independence Through Simple Lliving by Elizabeth Willard Thames is the story of how one millennial couple ditched the materialism of urban life to “retire” to their dream farm in Vermont when Thames was 32. (“Retire” is in quotes for a reason — more on that in a moment.)
The book is no doubt selling well and enjoyed by most, considering it has 200 reader reviews with an average rating of four stars.
But dig a little deeper — and I did, thanks to a tip from a colleague I won’t name in case she doesn’t want to be outed — and you’ll discover that many people who couldn’t wait to love the book were sorely disappointed, and for good reason.
Our tale begins with how the book is represented on Amazon. Here’s the story.
Part 1: What the book’s about
Meet the Frugalwoods is a memoir. As the book’s description states, it’s “The deeply personal story of how award-winning personal finance blogger Elizabeth Willard Thames abandoned a successful career in the city and embraced frugality to create a more meaningful, purpose-driven life, and retire to a homestead in the Vermont woods at age thirty-two with her husband and daughter.”
It’s not a personal finance how-to book.
It’s the story of the author’s journey from here to there. You might learn a thing or two about how Thames managed her money while you take this journey with her, but it’s a memoir. If you read it with the expectation that you’ll learn her life’s story, you won’t be disappointed.
But if you’re a Frugalwoods fan expecting to be highlighting tips for how you, too, can “retire” at 32, you can put that highlighter away right now.
Part 2: How it’s categorized and positioned
The publisher specializes in business books; the book is categorized as “personal finance,” “budgeting & money management,” and “retirement planning.”
But it’s a memoir. Sure, there’s room for advice in a memoir, but it’s certainly not a classic business or financial planning book.
Some discovering this book while searching Amazon for personal finance top sellers who saw it has a ton of reviews and didn’t read the book description might buy it expecting to get all kinds of personal finance tips.
Part 3: The definition of “average”
The author described her household income as “average.” Yet, their move to the country involved selling the Cambridge, Mass., home they bought for $460,000. Many “average” income earners in Middle America can’t afford a home valued at nearly half a million dollars.
In addition, Amazon one-star reviewer “A B” reports that “According to public records, Nate made $225,000 in 2014 and $271,000 in 2016 working as a non-profit executive.” (Nonprofits are required to report this information.)
Reviewer A B had to search for the information online because it’s not in the book. That seems like a key point — something to share in a “personal finance” book. As a reader, before I’m impressed with what you’ve accomplished, I need to know your starting point.
Why is it missing? Probably because the author is trying to hide it.
A few other one-star reviewers singled out income as a key reason they were disillusioned after reading the book, too. Thames’s blog led them to believe her family is “just like us.” For many, though, they aren’t.
“Average” is relative, of course. You might argue that a nearly $300,000 income in Cambridge, home of Harvard University, is average. But the Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that the median annual income for millennials is $36,000.
A household income that exceeds $271,000 isn’t “average.”
Part 4: The definition of “retire”
A key selling point of this book is that the couple “retired” when the author was 32.
She “retired” only if you use the definition you have in mind when you say, “I don’t feel well, so I’m going to retire to my bed.”
They aren’t living off their savings for the rest of their lives. They’re working from home. Yes, they have more financial independence than many, but they aren’t “retired” from earning a living. They’re “retired” from their previous lifestyle.
Part 5: The key to success
The key to success, according to this book, is that to save a lot of money, you have to have a lot of money to save.
It reminds me of an old (OLD!) Steve Martin joke from his stand-up comedy routine, “You Can Be a Millionaire.” Steve says, “First, you get a million dollars.”
Turns out that an essential financial tip from the book is, “Start with a lot of money.” That might be hard for the “average” income-earner.
In spite of the grumbling among Amazon reader reviews and on other sites, the author will probably earn out her advance and receive royalties she and her husband can spend in their, um, “retirement.”
While the handful of one-star reviews are smart, thoughtful, and logical — these reviewers make an excellent case for their disappointment — they’re in the minority.
Clearly, many like what they read.
The moral of the story
Still, we can learn a few things from this little story.
I’d put the importance of honesty and transparency at the top of the list.
It’s hard for me to understand how Thames has achieved the status she has while carefully guarding her income information. I would need a specific before and after perspective before drinking the Frugalwoods-flavored Kool-Aid.
In addition, you’re doing something wrong if you’ve disappointed your biggest fans.
Blogger J.D. Ross of Get Rich Slowly makes it clear he’s an admirer, but he’s not blind enough to overlook a key detail about the book in a review on his site.
In an otherwise positive review, he writes, “The only real acknowledgement of the role income played in the process comes during the book’s introduction: ‘In order to save large amounts of money, you have to have a sufficient amount of money coming in,’ Liz writes. ‘You can’t frugalize income you don’t earn.’ That’s great, but it comes in the midst of a seven-page apology for “privilege” and not in the meat of the book. I think it’s a vitally important point, and the fact that the subject is wholly missing from Meet the Frugalwoods is a mystery to me.”
It’s not a mystery to me.
The author knows it would undermine her efforts to help others, so she hides it. While I’m sure she’s well-intended, it’s the blogger-turned-author-equivalent of an anger management guru caught flipping out at an airline employee over a flight delay.
Be true to yourself and your audience with your book, its packaging, and your marketing. In a world with so many citizen journalists ready to expose even the smallest indiscretion, you won’t get away with smoke and mirrors for long.
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